You wake up and there it is. Tumbled, jumbled feelings courtesy of your preoccupation with the good opinion of other people. Thoughts about your character, looks, work, relationships and finances are topics incredibly important to you and you worry how others perceive you in relation to those things. It's an ingrained primal tribal instinct. It assured we didn't piss off other members of the society and get thrown out into the great unknown. Exile from the tribe would leave